I was going to just skip turn-ons, but I’ll just be vanilla about it instead. When she initiates it and it seems pretty urgent, enthusiasm, terrible language, enthusiastic/sloppy BJs, the threat of being caught, most things Kate does.
Turn offs generally: pillow princesses, bad hygiene, lack of enthusiasm, predictability.
Basically any place or situation! When we’ve been apart for a while, or it’s risky, after making up, when I see her in the morning, etc.
If we were both home and didn’t have sex for a couple of days, I would probably start to wonder if something was wrong. I am super comfortable with that. 😎
I don’t think it’s an issue.
As long as it’s not all the time or over anything fucked up, I think it’s okay. I don’t think it harms my marriage.
I’m 100% confident that what I have at home is way better and more satisfying than extramarital sex could ever be. But I also wouldn’t put myself in a situation where I had to spend time alone or in a group with somebody I found attractive. When I used to have a lot of hookups on tour they were mainly arranged for me/us by assistants, etc., so naturally that doesn’t happen anymore, and when we do meet and greet type shit, everybody is told what constitutes acceptable and unacceptable behavior, etc.
If Kate were sexually attracted to somebody else, then I would expect her not to see that person and I would probably want to know how and why those feelings arose.
We pray together all the time, yes.