I think I probably give love in the same way I always have, which is through physical touch and words of affirmation because that’s what works best for me. I would like this to change, and I think it can.
I’m always especially surprised and touched whenever Kate offers to do something nice for me when she’s busy or sick, etc.
I’m not sure if I’m supposed to say “she could tell me she loves me five times per day” for it to be measurable. She could tell me she loves me, give me zero personal space when we’re hanging out and watching TV in the house, etc., run her fingers through my hair, caress/stroke/rub/tickle my arms, belly, back, etc etc etc.
I most like to be touched everywhere all the time 🤷♂️. Fingernails with optional light scratching or fingertips on my arms, shoulders, neck, back, thighs I guess, but that’s more intimate*~, etc. I can ask for it!
I like to give the people I love extravagant but hopefully meaningful gifts. Kate has mentioned cutting back on it now that we have kids and have been together a long time so I should probably ask if that’s still the case.
I think it’s probably still that I’m a sexy idiot.